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When is Procrastination Not Procrastination?


April 19th, 2011

The Wikipedia defines procrastination in the following way:

“The act of replacing high-priority actions with tasks of low-priority, and thus

Turn Off Your Inner Critic!!

putting off important tasks to a later time.” I wonder how often we label something procrastination and beat ourselves up when it’s something totally different. There are many reasons we as human beings put off doing things and these reasons may not have anything to do with procrastination.

What if what we are putting off is because of a belief or judgment we have about ourselves or the task?

What if what we are putting off is not congruent with who we are an not in alignment but rather something we think we need to do that really is not moving us closer to what we want?

What if what we are delaying is simply in the realm of do do . . . we do live in a society that values doing . . .

What if what we really “should be doing” is Being?

Wikipedia also had this interesting piece about procrastination:

“Schraw, Pinard, Wadkins, and Olafson have proposed three criteria for a behavior to be classified as procrastination:

it must be counterproductive, needless, and delaying.”

When you put your story about how you procrastinate through this filter have you met all three of these requirements? If you have I would ask you to look at each and ask yourself the following:

Who thinks this is counterproductive? Is this a judgment?

Who thinks this is needless? Is it really needless?

What am I delaying by this “procrastination” and why?

What would happen if you looked instead at everything you have done and you patted yourself on the back and said good job? How would your life be different if you stopped beating yourself up for what you think you need to do and started aligning you doing with being?

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Peace, Presence, Productivity, and Time


April 6th, 2011

When you think about time what comes to mind? If you are like the hundreds of people I have talked with about this subject recently you may feel that it’s a limited commodity and very elusive.

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The Free Dictionary defines time in this way: A nonspatial continuum in which events occur in apparently irreversible succession from the past through the present to the future. This seemingly ordered sequence is something I have struggled with in the past and something that is misunderstood as well. We live in a culture that values doing and as as a result we have reduced time to something most of us do not have enough of. Our lives become filled with activities and doing that are not congruent with the meaning and connection to life that we so deeply desire.

Time is energy, and we are experiencing new planetary energies that are calling us to be peaceful, present and productive. So, how do we balance these energies to the point of knowing that we have enough time for everything we value and live from that perspective?

Recently I conducted a survey that asked the participants what was important to them. The answers were surprising to me because they signaled a shift in consciousness and awareness towards a more spiritual perspective.

Six months previously the results of a similar survey were focused more on money and generating income.

This time the top 3 priorities identified were:

Valuing Self, Spiritual Growth, and Getting Things Done.

The interesting thing is that these were rated within 2 points of each other in this order and these three were identified by 80% of the survey respondents as their most important focus. As I began to think about this I saw that time was a common energy underlying each of these priorities. Each of these priorities require time and each is connected to the others by underlying beliefs about time.

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